People management
Approaches to developing manager empathy through perspective taking exercises, storytelling, and exposure to diverse employee experiences.
Managers grow empathetic leadership by practicing perspective taking, listening to varied stories, and regularly exposing themselves to experiences beyond their own cultures, roles, and teams.
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Published by Charles Scott
July 23, 2025 - 3 min Read
Empathy in management is not a fixed trait but a skill that can be cultivated. The most effective programs begin by clarifying what empathy looks like in workplace interactions: listening actively, recognizing emotions, and translating understanding into supportive actions. Leaders who practice these behaviors consistently tend to foster safer environments where employees feel seen and valued. A practical starting point is setting aside structured time for reflection after meetings or difficult conversations. When managers pause to consider how their words land, they begin to notice biases and gaps in their understanding. Over time, this reflective habit becomes automatic, guiding decisions with greater sensitivity to diverse perspectives.
Empathy in management is not a fixed trait but a skill that can be cultivated. The most effective programs begin by clarifying what empathy looks like in workplace interactions: listening actively, recognizing emotions, and translating understanding into supportive actions. Leaders who practice these behaviors consistently tend to foster safer environments where employees feel seen and valued. A practical starting point is setting aside structured time for reflection after meetings or difficult conversations. When managers pause to consider how their words land, they begin to notice biases and gaps in their understanding. Over time, this reflective habit becomes automatic, guiding decisions with greater sensitivity to diverse perspectives.
Perspective taking exercises invite managers to step outside their habitual viewpoints. One approach is to use hypothetical scenarios that place the manager in the employee’s chair—experiencing a workload crunch, unclear priorities, or limited access to resources. Without judgment, participants describe what they would feel and need in that moment. The goal is not to argue right or wrong conclusions but to deepen the emotional vocabulary available to leaders. Paired discussions following the exercise help translate felt experiences into concrete, inclusive policies. When leaders practice seeing through others’ eyes, they reduce defensiveness and increase willingness to adapt management styles to meet real needs.
Perspective taking exercises invite managers to step outside their habitual viewpoints. One approach is to use hypothetical scenarios that place the manager in the employee’s chair—experiencing a workload crunch, unclear priorities, or limited access to resources. Without judgment, participants describe what they would feel and need in that moment. The goal is not to argue right or wrong conclusions but to deepen the emotional vocabulary available to leaders. Paired discussions following the exercise help translate felt experiences into concrete, inclusive policies. When leaders practice seeing through others’ eyes, they reduce defensiveness and increase willingness to adapt management styles to meet real needs.
9–11 words Exposure to diversity through structured experiences deepens empathic leadership.
Storytelling becomes a bridge between abstract empathy and concrete behavior. Encouraging employees to share their career journeys, including obstacles and turning points, reveals common human constants beneath diverse roles. A manager who has heard multiple narratives can identify subtle patterns—workload stress, ambiguity in goals, or the impact of microaggressions—that might otherwise go unnoticed. The storyteller benefits from validation and recognition, while the listener gains a richer context for decisions and policies. Effective storytelling respects boundaries, frames stories with purpose, and connects personal experience to measurable outcomes like improved team morale or clearer communication protocols.
Storytelling becomes a bridge between abstract empathy and concrete behavior. Encouraging employees to share their career journeys, including obstacles and turning points, reveals common human constants beneath diverse roles. A manager who has heard multiple narratives can identify subtle patterns—workload stress, ambiguity in goals, or the impact of microaggressions—that might otherwise go unnoticed. The storyteller benefits from validation and recognition, while the listener gains a richer context for decisions and policies. Effective storytelling respects boundaries, frames stories with purpose, and connects personal experience to measurable outcomes like improved team morale or clearer communication protocols.
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To sustain storytelling momentum, create regular, low-pressure forums for sharing. Formats can include moderated lunch-and-learn sessions, anonymous story submissions, or short video diaries from team members. The manager’s role is to listen, ask clarifying questions, and translate insights into action. After each session, teams should identify one practical change they can implement to reduce friction or bias. This cycle reinforces trust and demonstrates that leadership values lived experience. Over time, stories become a shared resource—an evolving reference point that informs performance reviews, promotions, and day-to-day interactions with respect and care.
To sustain storytelling momentum, create regular, low-pressure forums for sharing. Formats can include moderated lunch-and-learn sessions, anonymous story submissions, or short video diaries from team members. The manager’s role is to listen, ask clarifying questions, and translate insights into action. After each session, teams should identify one practical change they can implement to reduce friction or bias. This cycle reinforces trust and demonstrates that leadership values lived experience. Over time, stories become a shared resource—an evolving reference point that informs performance reviews, promotions, and day-to-day interactions with respect and care.
9–11 words Story-driven leadership translates personal narratives into measurable organizational change.
Exposure to diverse employee experiences is best achieved through deliberate rotations, mentorship, and cross-functional collaboration. When managers work with teammates from different backgrounds, they encounter a broader set of problem-solving approaches and communication styles. Rotations, even brief ones, illuminate how organizational norms affect individuals differently. Mentorship programs pair executives with peers who can offer candid feedback about leadership behavior and its consequences on inclusion. The goal is not to compel sameness but to broaden the manager’s repertoire. As familiarity grows, so does trust. Teams perceive leadership as genuinely interested in equitable opportunities, and this perception cascades into higher engagement and retention.
Exposure to diverse employee experiences is best achieved through deliberate rotations, mentorship, and cross-functional collaboration. When managers work with teammates from different backgrounds, they encounter a broader set of problem-solving approaches and communication styles. Rotations, even brief ones, illuminate how organizational norms affect individuals differently. Mentorship programs pair executives with peers who can offer candid feedback about leadership behavior and its consequences on inclusion. The goal is not to compel sameness but to broaden the manager’s repertoire. As familiarity grows, so does trust. Teams perceive leadership as genuinely interested in equitable opportunities, and this perception cascades into higher engagement and retention.
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Regular, structured exposure should include metrics that track progress. Leaders can monitor improvements in psychological safety, the distribution of stretch assignments, and the timeliness of feedback. Collecting qualitative anecdotes alongside quantitative data helps paint a fuller picture of impact. When managers witness tangible shifts—fewer bottlenecks in decision-making, clearer explanations of goals, or more considerate delegation—they’re more likely to continue investing in inclusive practices. Establishing feedback loops with employees who benefited from exposure initiatives reinforces accountability and demonstrates that empathy translates into real organizational change.
Regular, structured exposure should include metrics that track progress. Leaders can monitor improvements in psychological safety, the distribution of stretch assignments, and the timeliness of feedback. Collecting qualitative anecdotes alongside quantitative data helps paint a fuller picture of impact. When managers witness tangible shifts—fewer bottlenecks in decision-making, clearer explanations of goals, or more considerate delegation—they’re more likely to continue investing in inclusive practices. Establishing feedback loops with employees who benefited from exposure initiatives reinforces accountability and demonstrates that empathy translates into real organizational change.
9–11 words Practical application bridges empathy exercises with daily managerial duties.
Beyond internal exercises, external perspectives enrich a manager’s empathy toolkit. Inviting guest speakers from different industries, cultures, or roles disrupts familiar patterns and challenges assumptions. These conversations highlight how similar emotions appear in varied contexts, such as navigating ambiguity, managing conflict, or balancing competing priorities. Importantly, guests should offer practical, transferable insights rather than abstract ideals. When managers connect with diverse voices, they learn to craft messages, rewards, and policies that resonate across a spectrum of experiences. The most valuable outcomes are not only increased awareness but elevated capability to support teams under broad and nuanced conditions.
Beyond internal exercises, external perspectives enrich a manager’s empathy toolkit. Inviting guest speakers from different industries, cultures, or roles disrupts familiar patterns and challenges assumptions. These conversations highlight how similar emotions appear in varied contexts, such as navigating ambiguity, managing conflict, or balancing competing priorities. Importantly, guests should offer practical, transferable insights rather than abstract ideals. When managers connect with diverse voices, they learn to craft messages, rewards, and policies that resonate across a spectrum of experiences. The most valuable outcomes are not only increased awareness but elevated capability to support teams under broad and nuanced conditions.
Clarity surrounding expectations accompanies external exposure. After each guest interaction, managers should reflect on what surprised them, what they might adopt, and what they would handle differently next time. Documenting these reflections creates a living guide for inclusive leadership that other managers can replicate. The guide should include concrete examples of inclusive language, decision-making processes that invite input from underrepresented groups, and practice scenarios to test new approaches. With repetition, these insights become habitual, reducing the likelihood that future decisions hinge on instinct alone and widening the well of approaches available to the leadership team.
Clarity surrounding expectations accompanies external exposure. After each guest interaction, managers should reflect on what surprised them, what they might adopt, and what they would handle differently next time. Documenting these reflections creates a living guide for inclusive leadership that other managers can replicate. The guide should include concrete examples of inclusive language, decision-making processes that invite input from underrepresented groups, and practice scenarios to test new approaches. With repetition, these insights become habitual, reducing the likelihood that future decisions hinge on instinct alone and widening the well of approaches available to the leadership team.
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9–11 words Sustained practice solidifies empathy as a core leadership competency.
The daily routines of managers can embed empathy into the fabric of work. One method is to embed listening as a formal practice in one-on-one meetings, with a structured window for employees to express concerns without interruption. Managers should acknowledge emotions openly and validate feelings before offering guidance or decisions. This sequencing reinforces trust and reduces defensiveness, creating space for collaboration. Additionally, managers can co-create solutions with employees, turning problems into joint projects. When people participate directly in shaping outcomes, commitment grows. Small, consistent actions accumulate, sending a message that empathy is not a gesture but a strategic capability.
The daily routines of managers can embed empathy into the fabric of work. One method is to embed listening as a formal practice in one-on-one meetings, with a structured window for employees to express concerns without interruption. Managers should acknowledge emotions openly and validate feelings before offering guidance or decisions. This sequencing reinforces trust and reduces defensiveness, creating space for collaboration. Additionally, managers can co-create solutions with employees, turning problems into joint projects. When people participate directly in shaping outcomes, commitment grows. Small, consistent actions accumulate, sending a message that empathy is not a gesture but a strategic capability.
Another practical step is to align performance conversations with the lived experiences of staff members. This alignment means translating metrics into personal impact and ensuring that goals reflect realistic capacities and circumstances. Managers should avoid one-size-fits-all targets and instead tailor expectations to each employee’s context, strengths, and development trajectory. Providing timely, specific feedback celebrates progress while revealing opportunities for growth. By foregrounding individual narratives in evaluations, leadership signals that every voice matters and that empathy informs fair development pathways rather than merely enforcing compliance.
Another practical step is to align performance conversations with the lived experiences of staff members. This alignment means translating metrics into personal impact and ensuring that goals reflect realistic capacities and circumstances. Managers should avoid one-size-fits-all targets and instead tailor expectations to each employee’s context, strengths, and development trajectory. Providing timely, specific feedback celebrates progress while revealing opportunities for growth. By foregrounding individual narratives in evaluations, leadership signals that every voice matters and that empathy informs fair development pathways rather than merely enforcing compliance.
To sustain momentum, organizations must embed empathy into their culture. This requires leadership commitment, resource allocation, and visible accountability. Managers benefit from peer coaching, where colleagues observe and provide constructive feedback on empathetic behaviors. Public recognition of inclusive practices reinforces desired norms, encouraging others to emulate successful strategies. Training should be ongoing and pragmatic, focusing on real-world scenarios rather than theoretical concepts. Finally, measurement matters: dashboards that track inclusion indicators, turnover among diverse groups, and employee sentiment help keep empathy at the center of strategic decisions. When empathy becomes a measurable objective, lasting change follows.
To sustain momentum, organizations must embed empathy into their culture. This requires leadership commitment, resource allocation, and visible accountability. Managers benefit from peer coaching, where colleagues observe and provide constructive feedback on empathetic behaviors. Public recognition of inclusive practices reinforces desired norms, encouraging others to emulate successful strategies. Training should be ongoing and pragmatic, focusing on real-world scenarios rather than theoretical concepts. Finally, measurement matters: dashboards that track inclusion indicators, turnover among diverse groups, and employee sentiment help keep empathy at the center of strategic decisions. When empathy becomes a measurable objective, lasting change follows.
As with any durable capability, the key is consistency and iteration. Programs should evolve with feedback, research, and shifting workforce demographics. Encouraging managers to document their learning journeys creates a repository of experiential wisdom for new leaders. Over time, perspective taking, storytelling, and exposure to diverse experiences converge into a cohesive leadership style that earns trust across teams. The payoff includes higher engagement, stronger collaboration, and more equitable outcomes. In short, empathy is not a soft add-on but a practical driver of performance, resilience, and organizational health that scales with every manager.
As with any durable capability, the key is consistency and iteration. Programs should evolve with feedback, research, and shifting workforce demographics. Encouraging managers to document their learning journeys creates a repository of experiential wisdom for new leaders. Over time, perspective taking, storytelling, and exposure to diverse experiences converge into a cohesive leadership style that earns trust across teams. The payoff includes higher engagement, stronger collaboration, and more equitable outcomes. In short, empathy is not a soft add-on but a practical driver of performance, resilience, and organizational health that scales with every manager.
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